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The Church of England parish of Forest Row and Ashurst Wood is set at the northern edge of the Ashdown Forest IN West Sussex. The Parish straddles the beginnings of the Medway River that then runs through Kent and into the sea at Rochester.

The two churches in the parish, Holy Trinity, Forest Row and St. Dunstan’s, Ashurst Wood, lie at the heart, physically and metaphorically, of the two villages. These are in some ways traditional village churches, run by the villagers and involved in the life of the local communities at every level. However we hope that our worship reflects contemporary life and meets the needs of people of all ages and backgrounds. Our aim is to be accessible to all and to be places where all can come and hear of and experience something of the love of God that we have found in Jesus and to join us on the journey of faith.

If you are visiting the Villages for a holiday, for work or business or to attend a course at one of our colleges or schools, please use this site to drop in and join us on Sunday or at one of our events. Both churches are open during the day and you are welcome to come in and be quiet, to pray and to know God’s peace.

Please contact us if we can be of help in any way. We hope you enjoy your visit.

Nick Lamb

PARISH NEWS DECEMBER 2008

Dear Friends

 

Did you hear the one about why it never snows at Christmas? It’s because it’s all about Reindeer (‘rain, dear’). Get it? You may think this is terrible - but just you wait till you pull those crackers!

This kind of thing amongst many others is why a surprising number of people really hate Christmas. It’s not just that they can’t identify with the religious messages but it seems so pressured, consumerism driven and tawdry. Carol tunes are blared out in the shops, endless twinkling Santas fill the streets and everyone seems after your money. Well, I’m no Scrooge, and in fact I really love Christmas, but I can see the point.

And we get to this Christmas experiencing things that we never thought possible before: broken banks, rising unemployment, repossessions through the roof, inflation and recession at the same time and more. Not all bad news though – a charismatic beacon of hope in Barack Obama the first black President of the USA. Even Iraq seems to be getting better, if only in comparison to what it was like before.

And the real meaning of Christmas? Many go for the children – giving them a spoil, seeing them in the Nativity plays and Carol services. For some it is a good opportunity to have a party and get to know people in the office in a way that will embarrass them for the rest of the year. For others it is a time to be kind and show sympathy and care for the homeless, lonely, shut in and frail. In our varied, extraordinary and gifted Village we will all express a different meaning and find something different to celebrate.

For me? I love the traditional Christmas music, the expectancy of Midnight Mass (Communion), being a bit silly and not so serious, opening a stocking on Christmas morning and twinkly lights in the dark. But for me the best meaning is that somehow the God who made the heavens and the earth came to share this life, yours and mine, with all its sorrows, heartaches and joys, by becoming a frail and powerless baby in a cattle shed behind a pub. God identified with us all. I don’t understand how it happened or all that it means and I’m happy to accept the mystery. But at heart I know that it is about love, a love that is stronger than anything else in the universe. And it has reached out to each one of us and is for us to share.

So sing well, play well and eat well but remember to identify with those who don’t have your hope, your joy, your power. Be kind, generous, compassionate and caring – give others a taste of heaven!

God bless you

 

Nick Lamb